oh FFS..... I needed a thread to share my misery .....and I was baking a fucking birthday cake then too......

Bajaboi turned 22 on Tues.  I asked him if he wanted a cake a couple weeks ago
he said oooh yes please, coffee-flavored, please

Then he said he couldn't make it on Tues, would the weekend be ok?  I said "sure, whenever, name your time, we don't even need to do it if you don't want/it doesn't work for you, but lmk before I bake which will be today or tomorrow.  He said Sunday would be awesome.  Then I saw ground beef was on sale.  (I was in the store at the time)  He likes to make burgers and he likes to use the ridiculous grill his dad bought.  So I said "hey, do you want to do food as well, if so, you want nice steaks or burgers or something else?"  He said "I'll make burgers, that would be good"  so I bought the beef.  Realized i didn't have buns so went to another store and got those....

I left it to the absolute last minute and baked the cake a couple hours ago.  It might be cool enough by now for the buttercream i also made.

He just messaged that it wasn't really going to work.. so I said, ok, cake will be good for a day or two wanna pick a different time?................... he's basically totally forgotten I'm going out of town for weeks on Wednesday, that he agreed to be responsible for Thunderboi not burning the house down ...and getting them both to their 2nd covid shots in a few weeks if I'm not back in time.... and then I said (not bitterly) well why don't you just swing by and grab the cake and you and your gf can enjoy as and when..... because I'm the only other one who eats coffee flavored here and I'll be gone"  And he said "Oh yeah, I'd forgotten it was coffee".

I know he's only 22 and a seniori-sh in college and his life is stressful right now.  i do.  I really do but....

..... 
  we don't have a crying smiley anf I can't be arseed to find the old one

...........

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bummer.  I'm sorry.  Motivation is not my strong point at the moment......

irony

https://rmx.news/article/article/argentinian-pro-abortion-leader-dies-during-abortion-procedure

just wait: somebody will claim the beer virus took her

I don't know what her cholesterol was (and most likely she didn't either, and that's the problem,) but a friend from high school just had to have a quadruple bypass a couple days ago.

She's 41 fucking years old. Always been overweight, but not that overweight.

Anyway, unrelated to my friend's health woes, I'm taking a garlic supplement now. Will be checking to see if my cholesterol numbers have gone down with it soon...

I did, I am guilty.

What's up with your little Cherry Bomb?

Gravdigr wrote:

Monster used the word porn.

I riffed on the word porn with a Mmm... .

I said nothing about changing my user title.

But...

Since I can't get to the river in m'little Cherry Bomb, I would like my user title to read 'The Un-tuckian'.

When/If some kind mod could accomplish this task, I would be most grateful.

This is done.

Phucking autoplay...

Monster used the word porn.

I riffed on the word porn with a Mmm... .

I said nothing about changing my user title.

But...

Since I can't get to the river in m'little Cherry Bomb, I would like my user title to read 'The Un-tuckian'.

When/If some kind mod could accomplish this task, I would be most grateful.

Ima switch to Bud Light.

One of the coolest videos I've ever seen,

I am with you 100%, but it goes without saying, if you can't put "your" music on "your" device then one or both of these things are not actually "yours".