Don't panic, we were estranged for decades. (Beest & my choice/decision).   I started a post about ..ya know.. feeling guilty about feeling weird about not really giving a shit, but I got distracted.... So I've worked that through now. (for now)   But I thought I might still let all y'all know that if nothing else, you guys are my go-to when shit happens.  because you rock.

Also I am tenacious and an amazing detective, and British lawyer people really need training on how to leave a voicemail. :D